Don't risk it...

. 3.27.2008


I've been having an issue with an unanswered question. If you have friends that have a history of homewrecking can you trust them to be around your significant other? I mean I love some of my girls to death, but I don't always agree with their decisions and I'm very anti-homewrecking. I know that when I'm in a relationship, I want my dude to be able to kick it with me and my girls if necessary, but do I really want him around some chicks that have a history of breaking up happy homes? I know that maybe there is a difference because they're my friend and maybe within the relationship that they interfered with was a chick they didn't know at all, making it less likely for them to do something like that to me. But how can you be so sure? So is it better to be safe than sorry, and keep your girls at a distance from your man. I would rather be safe....because if I even THINK that she's being a little too friendly with ol' boy, then she is the ONLY ONE who is going to be SORRY! I would rather lose a friend if she felt like I was treating her unfairly, than lose my friend and my dude because I gave ol' girl the benefit of the doubt...ya dig?

1 comments:

Ton said...

I can digg it! Not saying that people can't change, but I am a firm believer that in the right situation with the right person some people will do things that we wouldn't expect of them. I'm really careful about this, because you never know when someone may turn there back on you. Afterall even Jesus had people turn on him, who am I not to go through the same thing!