Don't risk it...

I've been having an issue with an unanswered question. If you have friends that have a history of homewrecking can you trust them to be around your significant other? I mean I love some of my girls to death, but I don't always agree with their decisions and I'm very anti-homewrecking. I know that when I'm in a relationship, I want my dude to be able to kick it with me and my girls if necessary, but do I really want him around some chicks that have a history of breaking up happy homes? I know that maybe there is a difference because they're my friend and maybe within the relationship that they interfered with was a chick they didn't know at all, making it less likely for them to do something like that to me. But how can you be so sure? So is it better to be safe than sorry, and keep your girls at a distance from your man. I would rather be safe....because if I even THINK that she's being a little too friendly with ol' boy, then she is the ONLY ONE who is going to be SORRY! I would rather lose a friend if she felt like I was treating her unfairly, than lose my friend and my dude because I gave ol' girl the benefit of the doubt...ya dig?

U sold your soul to the DEVIL!

I'm sorry....I know this is a far fetched theory, but I'm pretty sure that T-Pain sold his soul to el Diablo (the Devil). Every song he is featured on is poppin in the club! For example: I hate Rick Ross....I feel like when he hit it big that nigga was already my Dad's age and thats just not hot, I'M SORRY! But when I tell you "The Boss" is my JAAAAAAAM, I mean when that shit comes on in the club I turn into one of the dudes....just going slaaaam off! Every remix that T-Pain is featured on is a MILLION times better than the original version. Another example is the "2-Step Remix," I don't even remember how the original goes....I just DON'T! But I remember T-Pain's first single, it was "I'm Sprung," which I think some people liked......I didn't. And then came "I'm in love with a Stripper," which was better than the first one, but I wasn't about to be a FAN. Then things were all quiet on the T-Pain front....and during this time is when I AM 100% CERTAIN.....that he sold his soul to the Devil. Then comes "Buy You a Drank," and music hasn't been the same since! He got Lil' Wayne using that synthesizer Gar-Bage like its the new HOTTNESS....and in all actuality it's not working for weezy. He needs to stick to sippin on that lean and living in the booth sans Synth! Now back to T-Pain in my Sweet ASS....THIS CRISPY LOOKING BROTHA IS EVERYWHERE, WITH HIS MULTI-COLORED LOCKS, LOOKIN LIKE A TIE-DYED PREDATOR! I want to hate T-Pain....I really do, but I CAN'T! His music is POPPIN and that's just the bottom line, OK? I wonder what life is like without a soul b/c I know that nigga no longer has one!

Mr.Shoulda Coulda Woulda

In continuing with my (Mr.) series, I'm going to talk about Mr.Shoulda Coulda Woulda. For most ladies out there you and he have been homies for years, and this is your BOY! But the reason why he is Mr.SCW instead of Mr.Right is because when ya'll first started kickin' it he asked you to hook him up with one of your girls, and you kindly obliged because ya'll were just homies. Eventually his relationship with your girl goes wrong (more than likely over something SIMPLE) and now everybody tries to just be friends. But as time progresses you see how FANTASTIC Mr.SCW really is and you're wondering how in the HELL did your girl mess this up or maybe he's just changed over the years. I mean my Mr.SCW put gas in my tank, paid for food when we went out, and there are bitches out there with BOYFRIENDS who won't do all that(SAD, but true)! But there are two reasons he will remain Mr.SCW. One reason is because ya'll are so close you probably know more about him than any regular girl he was trying to get at would know. And the second reason is b/c he has already been with your girl and you never want to get with him and wonder if he still thinks about her. And you know how catty girls are....even though she's not with him and hasn't been in awhile, she'll probably see that ya'll are happy and wonder if she gave it another shot would things work out. So to avoid all the drama you just keep things the way that they are. But no matter what Mr.Shoulda Coulda Woulda will always be your Ride or Die nigga! You just gotta love Mr.Shoulda Coulda Woulda. xoxo

Mr.Parker Brothers

Games...Games...Games! Games were cute when I was ten. I feel that I am too old for games and most of my friends are in the same age group, making them over the game age limit AS WELL! With that being said let me tell you about Mr.Paker Brothers! This is the nigga that likes to play games. He likes to show you pictures of his myspace/facebook friends and say to you "yeah, thats how they make in Texas!" Well good for Texas..NIGGA! Am I supposed to be jealous of these broads you show me? I'm not, but you are annoying the HELL outta me! Mr.Parker Brothers is that nigga who calls you and once he realizes you are out and unable to talk to him, says "call me tomorrow." He then proceeds to text you things like "if you were home I was going to come over and stay with you." Ha! Bitch you might be! You know what I say to that gar-bage? No, no you weren't going to come over, you are just saying that b/c you know that I'm out and that there is no way you could come over now, so you create the allusion of a possible situation that would not have occurred regardless of my damn location. TRIFLIN! STOP PLAYING! It's not like I asked you if you were coming over and you had to make it seem like you were! So basically you just went out of your way to make up some bullshit. Another example is when you and Mr.Parker Brothers are hanging out and he has to go so he tells you he has to go to an appointment with his "accountant" or something random, then later that evening he has pictures of an event he went to an hour after you dropped his ass off, or his FACEBOOK status changed an hour after you dropped him off and says "Out with that special someone." Now....you openly told me what your plans were after I dropped you off, it's not like I asked! So if you were going to lie then you should have just been like can you take me home or I need to go home! As far as I'm concerned this is a one player game you are playing and I refuse to push the start button to enter because I am just TOO DAMN OLD....AS ARE YOU SON-SON! Mr.Parker Brothers SUXXXX......and I'm not sure if there are any signs for him other than his first childish game, and once that happens you can either get out or sit down and grab a controller....hopefully if you play along you can beat his punk ass!

Mr.Pushaman

I'm not currently in any type of relationship, but for some reason it popped in my head that some times men can be like drugs to women. The man I'm describing will be titled "Mr.Pushaman." This man is so bad for a chicks health that he can cause weight fluctuations, like all of a sudden you are 10lbs lighter or 15lbs heavier and just not the woman you used to be. You can start losing friends over him, or your family members are concerned and they feel that they don't know you anymore. This is just not a good look! No man is worth having your family worried about your well being. But sometimes ladies get involved with Mr.Pushaman and they turn into fiends and the only thing that can make them feel better is unfortunately him, but what they don't understand is that yes, it may be hard to let him go, but you'll be better for it in the end. There are signs to let you know if your new Mr.Man is actually Mr.Pushaman. If after ya'll start talking your girls start saying they don't see you at all or EVER, then it's probably b/c you are spending all of your time w/ the dope man. If your mom starts leaving you messages everyday just "checking" on you, it's probably b/c the last time you talked to her was when you were telling her about your new boo (and that was a MONTH ago). If you stop doing most of the things you like, adopt his friends and spend all of your time with them, then your basically kickin it at the crack house with all the D-Boys. GET OUT FAST....before they start asking you to hook them up with some of your girlfriends which is the equivalant of running key's for those niggas! It's just like drugs, so baby do yourself, your family and your girls a favor and just say no!

i Heart a Good Mixtape

I recently blogged about Brooklyn bred MC Rahsaan, and if you're like me you probably click on a link and just browse the website you were directed to very briefly(we're all lazy @ times). Well if thats the case then you might have missed the fact that you can download his mixtape for...say it with me now..."Free ninety-nine"! So if you click HERE it will lead you to the zshare link. Take a big bite and ENJOY!

"Make me feel good on the INSIDE"

Because 5 is such a FANTABULOUS number, I am going to give you five songs that always make me feel a little better when I'm down, or they just make me feel something other than what I was prior to listening to them. Click songs to download them and artist names for their Myspace pages (p.s. the songs are listed in no specific order)

Bilal-"Sometimes"
Anthony Hamilton-"I'm A Mess"
John Legend-"Another Again"
Sia-"Distractions(Live)"
Talib Kweli-"Get By"

There are probably a miiiiiiillion more, but these were the five that stuck out at the time!
Regardless......download and BETTER YOURSELF!

5 reasons to get on your computer

Everyone should have access to a computer at their own leisure simply so they can visit these five sweet blogs anytime they like:

1. Stuff Educated Black People Like is a blog basically writing on things that EBP's like. Its a parody and all in good fun. I was reading the one about getting dressed up and was WEEEEEAAAAK

2. Stuff White People Like is where it all started! It's just as equally funny.

3. Improv Everywhere is the neatest thing EVERRR! They basically cause scenes in random places and video tape their happenings.

4. Black People Love Us! is HILARIOUS. Enough said, just go to the website and you will understand.

5. The FAIL Blog shows a lot of pictures where people, animals and situations just FAIL! It's PRICELESS!

Bitches & Sisters

I'm going to open up with Jay-Z lyrics:
"Sisters get respect, Bitches get what they deserve
Sisters work hard, Bitches work your nerves
Sisters hold you down, Bitches hold you up
Sisters help you progress, Bitches'll slow you up
Sisters cook up a meal play they role with the kidz
Bitches in the street with they nose in ya biz
Sisters tell the truth, Bitches tell lies
Sisters drive cars, Bitches wanna ride
Sisters give up the ass, Bitches give up the ass
Sisters do it slow, Bitches do it fast
Sisters do they dirt outside of where they live, Bitches have niggas all up in your crib
Sisters tell you quick you betta check ya homie
Bitches don't give a fuck they wanna check for ya homie
Sisters love Jay cause they know how hov is
I LOVE MY SISTERS I DON'T LOVE NO BITCH"

With that being said....I ask....What has happened to the Black Queen? I'm only wondering b/c I recently came across this video of women trying out for a Plies reality show, and it left me speechless. I really have nothing to say except that we have got to do better!

How much are they paying you?

So while watching the Making the Band 4 live portion, I noticed that as Donnie came out, Sway was like "look at his swagger!" And Sway sounded very convinced that he believed what was coming out of his mouth. So I have to ask...How much are they paying you? Sway is not the rasta VJ he once was! He has been turned into some robot who says things like "look at Donnie's SWAGGER." First of all his name is Donnie, eliminating all chances of having swagger. The only other Donnie's I know are Donnie Whalberg and he would have been better off if his name was Mark. And Donnie Simpson who hosted Soul train and..........no, no that's it.....HE ONLY HOSTED SOUL TRAIN! So what the HELL is Sway talking about? What is Sway talking about at all nowadays? I guess people's integrity comes with a price, and I bet his ain't even as high as it should be! SMH (thanks Rahsaan, lol)

Believe the HYPE

So I went to the club on Friday, in downtown Norfolk and of course we were partying! So one of the girls I was with (Ashley aka Barbie) purchased a bottle of Moet & Chandon Rose' Imperial NV. Now I had heard that Moet tasted like rocks, but that Rose'......oh believe the hype! It tasted sooooooooo good, to the point where I tried to find a bottle in the liquor store two days later, but all they had was the normal Moet & Chandon. And for all you slow asses out there buying these bottles in the club for REDICULOUS amounts of money, they sell in the store for like $45! So I would never buy a bottle in the club, it would have to be a really special occasion, REALLY SPECIAL! Like "I just won the lottery and can actually cover this expensive ass tab" special. But that Rose'......lives up to the Hype! Mmm mmm Good!

What's your Addiction?

"What's your addiction? Is it money, is it girls, is it weed? I've been afflicted...by not one, not two, but all three" ~Kanye West

So....I went to my first ball/cabaret type affair in early February. And being that it was my first one, I decided that I would go all out and do it BIG. So...if you actually know me, then you are probably aware of the fact that I'm not the biggest fan of dresses OR High Heels....but I decided that I was not only going to get a dress and high heels, but a short dress and VERY high heels.

I bought these black, tan and gold platform pumps, with about a four inch heel. These suckas were so bad that I kept them on ALL night, like a G! And now....I'M ADDICTED! I feel that platforms are so much more comfortable than regualr heels for some reason and I love them. So if there are any ladies out there reading this and you are like me...not too fond of high heels, then go out and get you a pair of platforms and say HELLO to your new BFF!

Are We In This 2gether

"Would you live for me? Now shorty tell me would you die for me? Are we in this together, are we in this together, tell me. If I was locked out with no money could you hold it down for me? I just gotta know for sho'....are we in this together...are we in this together? Tellll meeeeeee!" Those are the lyrics to the Day 26 track "Are We In This Together." This is currently my JAAAAAAM! This song is so good and I listen to it over and over and over and over again. I don't know what it is, but its just so damn good. This song needs to be everyone's ringer for your Ride OR Die. Your R.O.D is that person that you know is going to be there for you NO MATTER WHAT. You're hungry...they will give you the last bit of food they have! You need a ride...they call you when they're outside to pick your ass up! You're having a shitty day...they have some inspirational words to let you know that it's gonna BE ALRIGHT! You want to go out but you don't have the scrilla? They tell you they GOT YOU. Ladies.......Fella's........find your Ride or Die, but u have to be in it together....no half steppin! And when you find that Ride or Die, you need to show some reciprocity so that you don't lose them because a true Ride or Die is hard to find. Many like to call themselves a Ride or Die...but when you need them the most they might not be what they're all cracked up to be!

Download this and BETTER YOURSELF-Day 26 "Are We In This Together"

Accept God's Gift......and thank the Lord he BLESSED YOU!

Coincidence's...some can be good, others not so much! Luckily I recently experienced a very satisfying coincidence. One of my girl's peeping the blog recognized the person in my main picture(random? uh....yes!). She then messaged me on facebook asking about the picture and telling me more about the fella in it. Come to find out the picture is of Rahsaan Alexander(pronounced Ra like rapper and Saan like sand), known to some as "God's Favorite Rapper." Rahsaan is a Brooklyn based rapper who was born in Georgetown, Guyana. Rahsaan has the 3 main qualities of a great MC: lyrics, delivery, and vocal tone. I personally like my artists' to have so much conviction behind their lyrics that if they said "I piss GOLD," that I would really have to stop and think..."I wonder if this nigga really pisses Gold." All three of these qualities are exhibited on the rep yo set track Georgtown. WOTS(word on the street) is that his live shows are also force to be reckoned with. His music provides for all types of listeners. You got Sneaker Store Terrorist for all the Hip Hop FashJawns, and Pucker Up for all my Jilted Lovers, then of course All That for the ladies "...Grab my shoulders, lose composure, now you can really feel it deep inside." Ooooh....yes GUURRRRL, he went there! Rahsaan recently won the "Best Male Solo Performer" award for 2007 at the Underground and Indie Award show. After listening to his music and chatting with the kid, I can truly say that Rahsaan can be initiated into the Hip Hop Super Hero Justice League. He's out cleaning up the streets, ridding us of the Hurricane Chris' and the Soulja Boys of the world, helping to remind us why we all fell in love with Hip Hop in the first place! And I would just like to say thank you God's Gift...THANK YOU!

Visit his blog at Aflyguy.com to learn more about him. His myspace page is also Myspace.com/Rahsaan1