Is a Change gonna come? I hope you're right SAM!

Why are people so hesitant towards change? Especially when it comes to relationships, whether they be friendships, partnerships, or intimate relationships......people just go off of the way they've always been and decide that's how its always gonna be. If change wasn't necessary we'd all be babies....forever....whaaaack! So apparently change is inevitble and people should just embrace it because fighting it would be like dodging the wind, you can't really see it coming it just happens....and if I see you trying to avoid it I'll just stare at you and ask "what the fuck are you doing?" People have standards or rules & regulations about how they manage their relationships but don't you think these should alter towards the different people that you encounter in your life. If you are a person who doesn't like long distance relationships but you meet someone you really like who lives quite a distance from you, are you going to let your little rule get in the way of a potential kick ass relationship or change the rules? One little adjustment could change your whole future. I feel that people just get so stuck on their ways that they sometimes miss out on the good good that's going on around them. We've all gotta change sometime....if we didn't then it wouldn't even be an option.....now would it?!