One night at my boy Thom's place we were watching Def Comedy Jam and we saw Vanessa Fraction's act, which I came across again today and it got me to thinkin.....
I feel like some women (not all, but a few) are very picky about the men that they talk to, yet they'll be the first one to complain about being alone! I think if women focused more on the good things about a man they would find that the pros out weigh the cons. If you have a man with an At Least....then you might want to contemplate your standards and be satisfied. You could have a man with a great job, his own place and a slaaaaammin car.....but if he fights you like Mike Tyson then ain't a damn thing slammin about THAT! Stop being so pressed about "He needs to take me out to dinner" and "He needs to take me shopping" Bitch! Do for YOU.....why should a nigga do some shit that YOU won't do for yourself.....this makes you no more than an Escort, and if your sleeping with this man, then Escort turns into HOOKER. Stop telling nigga's what they not doing....and give them props for what they are doing, and then maybe he'll step his game up. It's easy to not do shit with your life, but it's hard to make something of yourself.......with that said, Ladies....don't pull your man down.....give him a hand and help pull him up!
Find a Man with an At Least.....
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1.23.2008
2 comments:
Okay this is tight! Mad props for the pro cons things. I know females are quick to bass on how he isn't doing this or he isn't doing that. But you forget that he makes you feel like you are loved or cherished and cared about. That is one of the most important things in a relationship.
People get wrapped up in they bullshit about what a nigga need to do for them... I agree BFF bitches need to start doing shit for themselves. Shit, I DO!
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