Have you ever witnessed a bad relationship and wondered why the people don't just get out?!?! You're probably thinking to yourself..."no one is happy any more, the good times seem so far away and its better to just let go." But can you imagine how hard it must be to let go? You know the relationship isn't the way it once was, but you just keep believing that it will get back to the what it used to be or even better. As soon as you've made up in your mind that you're finally gonna let them go, you just keep replaying all the good memories, all of the I Love You's, the future that should have been, and for a second all of the pain goes away. Then once you get in that mind state you try to figure out what went wrong and if you can fix it because you don't want to risk missing out on the reemergence of the "Old You" (in reference to the other person). Then you're right back where you started.....still holding on. Is it wrong to love someone so much that no matter what you always want to hold on?
"I've been changed and rearranged and it's not like it was before, and when the sun shines I'll show her why she can't keep me anymore....me anymore.....she loves me"
Listening to: Valdediction by The Foreign Exchange
Can't Keep Me Anymore
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1.04.2009
3 comments:
damn, this is real talk. sometimes it's difficult to let go even if you know it's no reason to stay.
"everytime i try to leave something keeps pullin me back me back, telling me I need you in my life."
--Chingy
I'm a hopeless romantic and I'm known to stay in a relationship even when the shit has been over for quite some time but neither party is ready to move on. It's hard. Life is hard.
Whit... Get out my head ! But nah, I reallllly liked this post, and you of all people know why. It's tough tho...
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